A lot of people are asking me lately if they should buy Dating Secrets – the new guide from Tony Sanders covering all the basics of pickup artistry and dating. I have read a handful of guides like this and wanted to address the question directly because investing extra money into a new guide like this is a big commitment.
So, Should You Buy Dating Secrets?
To start with, know that Dating Secrets is not for advanced, high level tactics in dating (though Tony is working on a few products to handle those higher level topics). Instead, it is a down to earth, simply tool to help you get started in the very complex world of meeting and attracting women.
That's not a knock however. As a basic guide, Dating Secrets goes through everything that has anything to do with improving your confidence, knowing how to speak to a woman, and successfully maintaining your power in an interaction with a woman.
This is a big deal because when you meet someone, you don't need lines or special pickup acts. You just need to be confident, funny, and not worry about her reaction.
What Else Does it Have?
Beyond these super simple basics written in a very easy to understand method with easy to follow tips, you'll find an expanded and very interesting set of chapters on actual real world activities, like conversation, the approach, getting the phone number, talking on the phone, going on dates, maintaining a relationship, and ultimately having sex.
These topics are either glossed over or blown out of proportion in other products, so having them laid out in an easy to read format with specific, down to earth tips is a nice change of pace.
So, What's the Verdict?
The verdict ultimately depends on what you want to get out of your dating guide. I would wholly recommend that you buy Dating Secrets if you have never used a dating guide before or have been disappointed by how they are written. For everyone else, head over to Dating Secrets and check out what Tony has to offer. I think you'll be impressed.
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Dating Secrets Contents
The other day, Dating Secrets by Tony Sanders was dropped on my desktop and I've been busy dissecting the contents for everyone interested in the final product. So, for everyone who has been waiting around to learn more about this guide, I present my take on the Dating Secrets contents.
The Basic Stuff
The guide opens up with a trio of introductory chapters. The first, focusing on what you know about women and how it colors your approach, is very important. It shows you where you're going wrong with preconceptions about what women want, the nature of sex for you and her, and your physical appeal. You'll learn how to overcome fears, and ultimately start building your confidence levels in a way that will allow you to more successfully tackle the approach.
The second of these sections focuses in on Communication basics including what you're doing wrong, the nature of a woman's tests for men, body language, and how to read a woman so you can open the boundaries of touching.
In the third chapter, we get a lot of interesting details about attraction – how both men and women are attracted to each other, and finally how to handle enhanced attraction when you are friends with a woman.
Moving Up
As you get further into the guide, you'll notice some important developments. It's here you'll learn how to intrigue a woman with interesting traits like humor, cold reading, cooking, shopping and more. You'll then learn how to meet women. This covers all the basics of meeting up with women – how to meet them, where to meet them, the approach, getting the phone number and setting up a date.
The last sections of the Dating Secrets contents go into great detail for topics like conversation, dating, and sex – actually walking you through every step of the process from how to talk about nearly anything with her, to getting her on the couch and all over you at the end of a date.
The Bottom Line
The Dating Secrets contents are an extremely thorough, in-depth rundown of everything you need to be successful with women from the first step of the process to the very final kiss on the couch. It's a powerful and compact collection of tips that is going to make a lot of guys very happy. If you're a newbie to pickup artistry or simply need to enhance some of the intro level tactics you're using, definitely check out Dating Secrets. Dating Secrets
The Basic Stuff
The guide opens up with a trio of introductory chapters. The first, focusing on what you know about women and how it colors your approach, is very important. It shows you where you're going wrong with preconceptions about what women want, the nature of sex for you and her, and your physical appeal. You'll learn how to overcome fears, and ultimately start building your confidence levels in a way that will allow you to more successfully tackle the approach.
The second of these sections focuses in on Communication basics including what you're doing wrong, the nature of a woman's tests for men, body language, and how to read a woman so you can open the boundaries of touching.
In the third chapter, we get a lot of interesting details about attraction – how both men and women are attracted to each other, and finally how to handle enhanced attraction when you are friends with a woman.
Moving Up
As you get further into the guide, you'll notice some important developments. It's here you'll learn how to intrigue a woman with interesting traits like humor, cold reading, cooking, shopping and more. You'll then learn how to meet women. This covers all the basics of meeting up with women – how to meet them, where to meet them, the approach, getting the phone number and setting up a date.
The last sections of the Dating Secrets contents go into great detail for topics like conversation, dating, and sex – actually walking you through every step of the process from how to talk about nearly anything with her, to getting her on the couch and all over you at the end of a date.
The Bottom Line
The Dating Secrets contents are an extremely thorough, in-depth rundown of everything you need to be successful with women from the first step of the process to the very final kiss on the couch. It's a powerful and compact collection of tips that is going to make a lot of guys very happy. If you're a newbie to pickup artistry or simply need to enhance some of the intro level tactics you're using, definitely check out Dating Secrets. Dating Secrets
Dating Secrets Scam
Whenever a new guide hits the market, a lot of people want to know if it is legitimate or not. That's exactly the case with Dating Secrets. Scam alerts popup everywhere when a big new launch occurs, and instead of feeding into the fire, I wanted to take a close look at it and determine if this is the real deal or not.
Is There a Dating Secrets Scam?
First, the background. Dating Secrets is a new guide by Tony Sanders – the guy behind a lot of major gaming guides for Warcraft, Farmville and a few others. He's been around for a while, but this is his first dating guide, which is a huge leap.
So, the first inclination is to assume the content will be rehashed to some degree. But, as you start reading, you'll realize pretty quickly that there's nothing fake here. Tony really knows his stuff and dives deep into the details of how dating works, what women expect out of men and how men can meet or tweak those expectations as needed.
That makes things very interesting because the content quickly starts telling you to make big changes that will supposedly help you with women. Again, my Dating Secrets scam-o-meter went off, but as I kept reading, I realized that these tips were very sound.
Tony starts out by telling you how women and men normally interact; how we need to rethink our assumptions and ultimately how we will overhaul the basic way in which women approach a relationship to our advantage.
All good stuff, and made much better by the fact that he follows through with real solid advice on the topic. From how to boost your confidence to how you should be dressing and finally how you should be approaching the women you meet, you'll be blown away by the simple yet direct tact taken in this guide.
The Bottom Line
There is no Dating Secrets scam. As much as we may assume any new dating guide must be a scam built out of nothing, the truth is that this is very much legitimate – written by a fantastic guide writer and presented in a way that will help even the least sociable men around to master the art of the pickup.
Is There a Dating Secrets Scam?
First, the background. Dating Secrets is a new guide by Tony Sanders – the guy behind a lot of major gaming guides for Warcraft, Farmville and a few others. He's been around for a while, but this is his first dating guide, which is a huge leap.
So, the first inclination is to assume the content will be rehashed to some degree. But, as you start reading, you'll realize pretty quickly that there's nothing fake here. Tony really knows his stuff and dives deep into the details of how dating works, what women expect out of men and how men can meet or tweak those expectations as needed.
That makes things very interesting because the content quickly starts telling you to make big changes that will supposedly help you with women. Again, my Dating Secrets scam-o-meter went off, but as I kept reading, I realized that these tips were very sound.
Tony starts out by telling you how women and men normally interact; how we need to rethink our assumptions and ultimately how we will overhaul the basic way in which women approach a relationship to our advantage.
All good stuff, and made much better by the fact that he follows through with real solid advice on the topic. From how to boost your confidence to how you should be dressing and finally how you should be approaching the women you meet, you'll be blown away by the simple yet direct tact taken in this guide.
The Bottom Line
There is no Dating Secrets scam. As much as we may assume any new dating guide must be a scam built out of nothing, the truth is that this is very much legitimate – written by a fantastic guide writer and presented in a way that will help even the least sociable men around to master the art of the pickup.
The Dating Secrets Method
Dating Secrets is finally on the market – we've been waiting for a while as Tony Sanders promised something "new and exciting" and I've been interested to see what comes of it. This is a topic I've long looked for a down to earth guide on.
So, with the guide finally here, what exactly does the Dating Secrets method entail and can the average guy (i.e. me) use it without having to completely change who they are?
The Dating Secrets Method in a Nutshell
The Dating Secrets method basically states that you need to be confident, willing to show every woman the better aspects of your personality, and work hard to generate rapport and control the flow of the conversation with every woman you meet.
It sounds pretty complicated, but in reality it boils down to three things. First, you need to be honest with yourself about who you are and what you want. Stop putting yourself down and realize that you're just as qualified as any other guy out there to talk to the super-hot woman at the bar.
Second, you need to be a cleaner, more polished version of yourself. That doesn't mean you should change who you are, but it definitely means you should rethink the three year old loafers and the stained t-shirt when you head out. Look nice, eat nice, and you'll feel nice.
Third and finally, you need to be consistent and practice. You cannot become confident and smooth with women over night. You need to go out and you need to practice, and in all that, you need to learn not to be upset when you fail. Because, you will fail a lot.
In truth, the Dating Secrets method sound a lot like many other dating methods – but the main difference is that Tony Sanders provides the tools and examples you need to go through and make these changes, step by step.
Is it Worth It?
Dating Secrets is a new take on a very old topic, and that new take is not only fresh, but very welcome. Check it out today and find out how you can quite literally reposition yourself to challenge everything women expect when they meet you.
So, with the guide finally here, what exactly does the Dating Secrets method entail and can the average guy (i.e. me) use it without having to completely change who they are?
The Dating Secrets Method in a Nutshell
The Dating Secrets method basically states that you need to be confident, willing to show every woman the better aspects of your personality, and work hard to generate rapport and control the flow of the conversation with every woman you meet.
It sounds pretty complicated, but in reality it boils down to three things. First, you need to be honest with yourself about who you are and what you want. Stop putting yourself down and realize that you're just as qualified as any other guy out there to talk to the super-hot woman at the bar.
Second, you need to be a cleaner, more polished version of yourself. That doesn't mean you should change who you are, but it definitely means you should rethink the three year old loafers and the stained t-shirt when you head out. Look nice, eat nice, and you'll feel nice.
Third and finally, you need to be consistent and practice. You cannot become confident and smooth with women over night. You need to go out and you need to practice, and in all that, you need to learn not to be upset when you fail. Because, you will fail a lot.
In truth, the Dating Secrets method sound a lot like many other dating methods – but the main difference is that Tony Sanders provides the tools and examples you need to go through and make these changes, step by step.
Is it Worth It?
Dating Secrets is a new take on a very old topic, and that new take is not only fresh, but very welcome. Check it out today and find out how you can quite literally reposition yourself to challenge everything women expect when they meet you.
Strategies from Dating Secrets
I get questions all the time from readers wanting to know which strategies from Dating Secrets they can use when they go out on the weekend to meet women. They want something straightforward that they can use right out of the gate to meet women, but unfortunately, they don't realize that they also need to have a solid understanding of the core concepts in the book.
How Dating Secrets Works
There are a lot of strategies from Dating Secrets that work extremely well for anyone interested in playing the long game and improving themselves to approach women. Unfortunately, there are very few short term, simple tactics that will let you immediately go and meet women.
There's a very good reason why though. It's because the strategies from Dating Secrets are all focused on one thing – creating a better version of you. By upgrading yourself to a level that will allow you to attract women to you, you generate a completely different game plan.
That takes some practice. You need to read the guide, go through every strategy and overhaul the mind-set you take with you into the club every week.
What that Involves
To overhaul the strategies you use, you need to start by rethinking what women truly want. Most men assume that women only want a powerful, rich, attractive man. Yes, they're attracted to that, but it doesn't mean it's what they really want. In truth, women want someone they can rely on. That means you need to be confident, and well prepared for the future.
You should share your passions in life and clearly identify what your thoughts are for the future. This will provide you with the much needed outlook that will take you to the next level when you start approaching these women and talking to them about whatever you decide to open with.
Why Dating Secrets?
Dating Secrets doesn't assume you're an automatic Casanova. It shows you how to become that Casanova and it does so with simple, slowly outlined strategies that anyone could master with the right teacher. So, check it out, because this is not just another dating guide. It's something different – it's a life style guide.
How Dating Secrets Works
There are a lot of strategies from Dating Secrets that work extremely well for anyone interested in playing the long game and improving themselves to approach women. Unfortunately, there are very few short term, simple tactics that will let you immediately go and meet women.
There's a very good reason why though. It's because the strategies from Dating Secrets are all focused on one thing – creating a better version of you. By upgrading yourself to a level that will allow you to attract women to you, you generate a completely different game plan.
That takes some practice. You need to read the guide, go through every strategy and overhaul the mind-set you take with you into the club every week.
What that Involves
To overhaul the strategies you use, you need to start by rethinking what women truly want. Most men assume that women only want a powerful, rich, attractive man. Yes, they're attracted to that, but it doesn't mean it's what they really want. In truth, women want someone they can rely on. That means you need to be confident, and well prepared for the future.
You should share your passions in life and clearly identify what your thoughts are for the future. This will provide you with the much needed outlook that will take you to the next level when you start approaching these women and talking to them about whatever you decide to open with.
Why Dating Secrets?
Dating Secrets doesn't assume you're an automatic Casanova. It shows you how to become that Casanova and it does so with simple, slowly outlined strategies that anyone could master with the right teacher. So, check it out, because this is not just another dating guide. It's something different – it's a life style guide.
Dating Secrets Tips
For anyone that has seen or heard about the new Dating Secrets guide by Tony Sanders, you're probably wondering what kind of tips and strategies he's tossing out – are they different from the ones you've been hearing since you were 16 or are they actually different?
For the most part, the Dating Secrets tips are based on a solid foundation of existing information. No one is reinventing the wheel here. But, what really sets this guide apart is Tony's dedication to present his information in an easy to ready, straightforward manner.
A lot of PUA materials are dense and hard to follow, and when they're not they make assumptions about what the reader is capable of. Dating Secrets tips are all very simple – and give you a tangible thing to complete when preparing for your dates.
What This Does to the Game
When you have Dating Secrets tips that are so straightforward and focused on helping you develop confidence and a smoother game without getting lost in measuring sentences and memorizing routines, you will go into every interaction with a far better understanding of what you should be doing.
That's a big plus, because most men honestly have no idea how to start, where to take the conversation or how to transition. It's all laid out for you in stark detail here – making it incredibly easy to understand what women will respond to and what just won't work.
What Kinds of Dating Secrets Tips
So, what kind of tips will you find if you pick up Dating Secrets by Tony Sanders? To start with, you'll learn how to rethink how men and women see each other, and what she actually wants to hear from you. You'll learn how to physically and emotionally attract women and then how to drive their attraction further with the right teasing and confident tactics. You'll learn how friendship and attraction repel each other (and how to overcome it), and then how to intrigue a women with your various skill sets.
Overall, with Dating Secrets, you'll get a hands-on approach to dating that is so rare in the current market. Learn what it takes to develop a strong sense of understanding for the women you meet, and then close the deal every time out.
For the most part, the Dating Secrets tips are based on a solid foundation of existing information. No one is reinventing the wheel here. But, what really sets this guide apart is Tony's dedication to present his information in an easy to ready, straightforward manner.
A lot of PUA materials are dense and hard to follow, and when they're not they make assumptions about what the reader is capable of. Dating Secrets tips are all very simple – and give you a tangible thing to complete when preparing for your dates.
What This Does to the Game
When you have Dating Secrets tips that are so straightforward and focused on helping you develop confidence and a smoother game without getting lost in measuring sentences and memorizing routines, you will go into every interaction with a far better understanding of what you should be doing.
That's a big plus, because most men honestly have no idea how to start, where to take the conversation or how to transition. It's all laid out for you in stark detail here – making it incredibly easy to understand what women will respond to and what just won't work.
What Kinds of Dating Secrets Tips
So, what kind of tips will you find if you pick up Dating Secrets by Tony Sanders? To start with, you'll learn how to rethink how men and women see each other, and what she actually wants to hear from you. You'll learn how to physically and emotionally attract women and then how to drive their attraction further with the right teasing and confident tactics. You'll learn how friendship and attraction repel each other (and how to overcome it), and then how to intrigue a women with your various skill sets.
Overall, with Dating Secrets, you'll get a hands-on approach to dating that is so rare in the current market. Learn what it takes to develop a strong sense of understanding for the women you meet, and then close the deal every time out.
Dating Secrets Relationship Advice
The buzz among all the guys right now is the new Dating Secrets guide recently released by Tony Sanders. Everyone knows this guy for his fantastic gaming guides, but who knew he was such a dating guru? But, what kind of Dating Secrets relationship advice is floating around out there and how effective is it?
Confidence 101
The big message in most of Dating Secrets is to find your inner confidence. You need to not only be attractive to women, you need to be confident in yourself. This is nothing new to the dating game – every guide mentions inner game and the need to be powerfully self-assured. But, the Dating Secrets relationship advice really drives it home.
Combined with a strong sense of humor, strong self-esteem and a positive body image, you should be able to take this confident approach into an encounter with any woman you meet. That's a pretty fantastic promise that few other guides can successful make.
Talking to a Woman
Another thing that a lot of guys mess up when they first get started is talking to women, and with the Dating Secrets relationship advice on communication, you can finally put an end to it. You'll learn how to be different while still being yourself, how to tap into your body language, and how to read her body language effectively. You'll learn the rules of direct communication, as well as the science of touching – when it's okay to go for a warm up touch and beyond.
Finally, you'll learn how the actual approach and conversation break down. Are you talking to her the right way? Dating Secrets will walk through every step to make sure you're not making the massive mistakes that so many men walk into when they approach an attractive woman in the club.
Dating Secrets in a Nutshell
The basic idea of Dating Secrets is to make the whole process as simple as possible. Yeah, Tony goes into a few more complex ideas, but generally just to show you that things are multi-layered enough that you can't expect the same results every time. Atop that layer of complexity is a lot of sound, down-to-earth advice that will really help you get through the dating process without too many hitches. Dating Secrets
Confidence 101
The big message in most of Dating Secrets is to find your inner confidence. You need to not only be attractive to women, you need to be confident in yourself. This is nothing new to the dating game – every guide mentions inner game and the need to be powerfully self-assured. But, the Dating Secrets relationship advice really drives it home.
Combined with a strong sense of humor, strong self-esteem and a positive body image, you should be able to take this confident approach into an encounter with any woman you meet. That's a pretty fantastic promise that few other guides can successful make.
Talking to a Woman
Another thing that a lot of guys mess up when they first get started is talking to women, and with the Dating Secrets relationship advice on communication, you can finally put an end to it. You'll learn how to be different while still being yourself, how to tap into your body language, and how to read her body language effectively. You'll learn the rules of direct communication, as well as the science of touching – when it's okay to go for a warm up touch and beyond.
Finally, you'll learn how the actual approach and conversation break down. Are you talking to her the right way? Dating Secrets will walk through every step to make sure you're not making the massive mistakes that so many men walk into when they approach an attractive woman in the club.
Dating Secrets in a Nutshell
The basic idea of Dating Secrets is to make the whole process as simple as possible. Yeah, Tony goes into a few more complex ideas, but generally just to show you that things are multi-layered enough that you can't expect the same results every time. Atop that layer of complexity is a lot of sound, down-to-earth advice that will really help you get through the dating process without too many hitches. Dating Secrets
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